Here is a formula that I always use:
innodb_buffer_pool_size
+ key_buffer
+ max_connections * (join_buffer + sort_buffer + read_buffer + binlog_cache_size)
+ max_connections * 2
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= TOTAL RAM MYSQL CAN USE
Note: this is a general formula so make sure you do you do-diligence for your system before you plug all the numbers into production.
Good formula! I use a similar one, generally this:
innodb_buffer_pool_size +
key_buffer_size +
query_cache_size +
(max_connections * (192k + sort_buffer_size + read_buffer_size + tmp_table_size)) +
32M
Note: 192k is the approximate thread size. The 32M accounts for the binaries and some other settings that I didn't add into the formula. Of course there are plenty of things that aren't being accounted for that *could* get used, but this formula gives a pretty good estimate of worse case ram usage.